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As it hasn’t had an outing for a while and I’m in a contemplative mood…

September 13, 2009 – 3:35 pm

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon…
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life’s betrayals
or have become shriveled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
Mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
Mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
Disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
Even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
From its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
Yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes.”

It doesn’t interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
After the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the center of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

By Oriah Mountain Dreamer (Written upon her return from a party she went to
alone and had asked all the usual questions of the people she had met
……..and wondered about what really mattered)

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  1. 7 Responses to “As it hasn’t had an outing for a while and I’m in a contemplative mood…”

  2. that’s fabulous, thanks for sharing it.

    By Jax on Sep 13, 2009

  3. I have never heard this before….I love it!

    By Carolyn on Sep 13, 2009

  4. Really great! Thanks for posting, think I’ve read it before but it speaks so clearly that it bears a second outing! It’s one reason why I avoid parties, I hate those ‘and what do you do?’ questions. I’ve always wanted to find an alternative. This has helped.

    By Liz on Sep 13, 2009

  5. We had this poem read at our wedding! My best friend wrote a closing verse just for us. It probably was one of the most touching parts of our ceremony. So many people came and wanted copies of it afterwards. Each year my husband and I go over it together on our anniversary.

    By tracie on Sep 16, 2009

  6. Hope all is well with you! :)

    By Elizabeth on Sep 29, 2009

  7. That is an astounding and totally honest poem.

    So touching and so beautiful.

    Danae
    http://www.threedegreesoffreedom.blogspot.com

    By Danae on Oct 13, 2009

  8. Wow…..fantastically beautiful…..my husband of 15 years left me about 6 weeks ago…leaving me and our three wonderful children…..this verse is so spot on….fantastic…

    “It doesn’t interest me
    to know where you live or how much money you have.
    I want to know if you can get up
    After the night of grief and despair
    weary and bruised to the bone
    and do what needs to be done
    to feed the children.”

    xxxxxxxxx

    By suzie on Apr 5, 2010

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